Dating violence connected to eating disorders

Does your partner repeatedly say things like this to you?Do you often start questioning your own perception of reality, even your own sanity, within your relationship?Only about half of domestic violence incidents are reported to police. All women who are victims of domestic violence are at risk of being murdered by their abusers.Almost all of the perpetrators of domestic violence say that they will stop. And one out of every four women who are the victims of domestic violence attempt suicide.Demonstrating to your teen – through your words and actions – that violence is never an acceptable form of behavior is essential to your teen's growth into responsible, level-headed young adults.

It is an extremely effective form of emotional abuse that causes a victim to question their own feelings, instincts, and sanity, which gives the abusive partner a lot of power (and we know that abuse is about power and control).

Some theorists understand this aspect of personality disorders as a problem of emotional regulation; some disorders are characterized by a tendency to under-regulate emotions, whereas others tend to over-regulate emotions.

This differs from a healthy personality where we expect a full range of emotional intensity from controlled to fully expressive.

Once an abusive partner has broken down the victim’s ability to trust their own perceptions, the victim is more likely to stay in the abusive relationship.

There are a variety of gaslighting techniques that an abusive partner might use: Withholding: the abusive partner pretends not to understand or refuses to listen. “I don’t want to hear this again,” or “You’re trying to confuse me.” Countering: the abusive partner questions the victim’s memory of events, even when the victim remembers them accurately. “You’re wrong, you never remember things correctly.” Blocking/Diverting: the abusive partner changes the subject and/or questions the victim’s thoughts. “Is that another crazy idea you got from [friend/family member]?

Dating violence connected to eating disorders